I have one long-time friend in Utah who tends to posit that whether we have faith (e.g. in the existence of God/s) should be decided less on apparent facts and truths, than on an analysis on how and whether that faith will benefit us in our life. I suppose his method is as good as any when one can't
*know* whether to believe anyway ... although I personally remain a strict "what are the apparent facts" proponent.
I got the poll choice, "God is a Thing, not a Being; God is a State of Perfect Enlightenment," from my younger brother. He has been through a lot in the past few years and his faith shot way down until he formulated a whole new model of God. Instead of being a Person who could help us (with His magic) in our mortal affairs, God is a Thing, a State of High Energy comparable to the Force on Star Wars. In this model, all of us can advance spiritually and at "times" (though this God isn't confined by Time) be in a state of oneness with God.
If I were a believer, I'd choose, "There is/are (a) God/dess/es, (a) Being/s Who can't intervene in our temporal affairs." That's the God/s that make/s the most sense to me, that simultaneously appeal/s the most to my ultimate desires (or if you prefer, my selfishness and excessive ego). If I were voting for the anthropomorphic God I was raised on in the Mormon church, then voting, "There is no God," would have been a no-brainer for me. Luckily I've considered a wide range of "God models" over the years, so I feel like I have a reasonably good idea, within mortal bounds, of what I'm passing up on when I choose the atheist creed.
I actually don't claim to have conclusive proof of God's or Gods' non-existence; at least I don't ultimately base my unbelief on proof. It's an intuitive state of mind; I won't deny it. I
*feel* like no God/s exist/s. That's my bottom line. Although, I derive much (most?) of this feeling from what I can perceive with my physical senses.
Re (from
JaneQSmythe):
"Dead meat rotting wouldn't matter anymore than a butterfly leaving its cocoon behind ..."
I like the analogy, though ironically it uses a physical entity -- a butterfly -- to illustrate the path of the soul which is generally not thought of as physical at least not in the same way a butterfly is thought of.
My perception is more like, there is a caterpillar, then a cocoon, then the cocoon opens but there's nothing inside that I can see -- no butterfly. I have been unable to perceive the existence of the butterfly to my own personal satisfaction. Others have had satisfactory manifestations of the butterfly and I wouldn't want to argue with that because I haven't been in their shoes and don't assume I can imagine what they've perceived or felt.
Re:
"I see it more as that they have to suffer the cruelty that they inflicted on you, from your perspective, while knowing that they were the cause of that suffering. You experiencing their response to your actions would be a minimal blip -- since, in my mind, they could not have been very affected by your actions if they could harm you in that fashion. At the most it might provide you with some insight as to how they could have come to that point -- and help foster the compassion to forgive them."
Oh I suppose I could handle that. It's not my great desire to spend much time thinking about them (much less experiencing their worldview), but I can almost imagine how this version of "The Last Judgment" could be an enlightening experience for me.
Re:
"Perhaps what you learn is that those instances that you dwell on actually turned out to *not* be that terrible from the perspective of the entity."
Yes, I can always hope I'll get lucky in that regard.
Re: the beneficial nature of (some? all?) hurts ... is actually a concept I stopped believing in years before I stopped believing in God. Yes, many people do emerge from the other side of a storm in a better spiritual frame of mind than when they entered the storm. But my conclusion is that they achieved that benefit
*in spite of* the storm, rather than because of it.
Re:
"Being forgiven doesn't absolve me, as the person who did the wrong, from seeking atonement for my actions as part of my healing for inflicting hurt on another."
I do believe that wrongdoers (something we all are at times) have a moral responsibility to (correct their wrongful behavioral pattern and) make amends as best they can, regardless of whether their victims forgive them.